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Hand jobs without borders

Fri, Mar 13, 2009 at 09:59:58am   ►by Ruslan Valeev   ►

Hand jobs are funny.

I remember one lover asking me for a hand job and there was a hint of shame and excitement in his voice that'd I'd never heard from him before. While Men are rarely shy to ask for a blow job, there's something about asking for the "hand treatment" that inevitably feels forbidden and slightly juvenile. It's like "third base", just one step away from finally getting to "do it."

In some ways it's the least intimate and clumsy of the sex acts: lot's of flopping and fumbling, searching for that sweet spot: finding her clit than losing it, hitting that moan-worthy part of his head and having a carpal tunnel moment and losing the momentum and starting all over again-NO!!!!!! Must...achieve...happy...ending....

But while hand jobs do seem very middle school, it can also be a very grown up challenge. Foreign hand vs. native hand...Native hand knows the territory and has lot's of experience but foreign may have some tricks up it's sleeve: covert tactics such as sucking, kissing, biting.

Place your bets folks! It's a tough call. What do you think about hand jobs?

 

this blog was originally written by Anna Rose Steiner

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Comments

pun intended

Hands down, great post!

Anonymous on Mar 13, 2009 05:12pm

How it really feels

The feeling during an awesome (and physically fulfilling) erection is one where guys feel their manhood is going to burst. The blood flow is so much, with no way to escape, that it feels it may pop any moment. Its then that physical pressure applied from outside to inside (best done by a hand) sorta balances out the pressure welling up from inside to outside (coz of the blood deluge) and soothes the bursting sensation. Fucking does provide release but the puss can never be as tight on one's cock, as a huge squeeze through hand muscles. It may be difficult to stop pounding after reaching the point of no return in usual sex, but an added advantage of a hand job is that the pleasure can be prolonged by varying the pressure of the hand or even completely stopping for short spells. Finally, the sense of vision can also be used to heighten the feeling ..... Get a hand job from a pretty, well kept, pampered hand with possibly nail varnish in your favourite colour?

Maple Capricorn on Mar 15, 2009 02:17am