NSRC: National Sexuality Resource Center

Fleshiness

Wed, Jul 29, 2009 at 08:52:35pm   ►by Danielle Holbrook   ►

    Flesh is tricky

    never staying in the same shape or place

    our bodies are solid

    yet fluid in their ability to be interpreted in a myriad of ways.

    We wrestle with our flesh,

    forcing it into spandex contraptions designed to morph unruly flesh into the image of hourglass perfection,

    it eludes captivity. 

    Flesh spills gleefully

    over the elastic confines of the corset, the shaper, the bra.

      Flesh reminds us

    we can’t be anything we want to be. 

    Our attempts to perform thinness

    model-esque physical perfection as defined by an airbrush fail as our bodies wiggle and jiggle in merry display.

      We wound our bodies

    angry and swollen red lines attest to our attempts to confine the flesh. 

    Even the devices we inflict upon our body revolt at its captivity-

    Runs in panty hose reveal pale flesh not suntan brown, toe reinforcement be damned

    Bras slide eagerly up the back

    anxious to release heavy breasts from confinement

    Shapers roll and move

    twisting around the body, stretching as if to encourage fleshy freedom

    Both product and body

    sending a message that the body we desire is unnatural, unobtainable

    For panty hose will run

    bras will stretch, shapers will fail

    Whether sucked or tucked

    the body will reassert itself

    Flesh is tricky that way

    Beautiful lines of aging

    etched into wind worn skin

    Whisps of brushed metal silver

    weaving a tapestry of wisdom

    Bodies moving with abandon

    loosed from their commercialized torment

    Free.

    Comments

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    I love that I'm able to read your writing on here. You're doing really great work danielle.

    Richard C Garcia on Jul 30, 2009 09:14am