Spoiler alert: straight-ish girl talks about sex with men and the uses the word vagina.

20% of US men report using a vibrator.

As a girl who (a) loves having sex with men and (b) vibrators, I think we've lived too long in a world where never the twain shall meet. I know that people the world over are intellectually toiling over the ethics of vibrators: do they cause de-sensitization? do they make penises seem icky and anti-climactic? Do they make you gay? I say maybe, no, and only if you want them to.

I thought I'd give 3 ways that vibes make for improved sexy times:

(1) When with men, I use both a small vibe (mine is LeLo Mia lipstick vibe in dark pink) for smaller areas (you can buy bullet vibes online or in a sex shop for anywhere between $2 and $8 and if you're in a bind, put your phone on vibrate and use that) as well my trusty sidekick, Hitachi Magic Wand, during intercourse (Hitachi is a bigger investment, costing between $40 and $80 depending on whether you order it online or buy it in a store. Also, when using Hitachi you must be near an outlet or have an extension cord).

(2) Smaller vibes work very well for nipple, peri-anal (aka butt hole and the surrounding nerve-infused area) as well as frenulum stimulation. The frenulum is that sensitive bit right under the...