I finally got a chance to read Indiana University's recently released findings from their National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, and I can't stop thinking about the "orgasm gap".  Really, it's two gaps.  The first involves a greater likelihood of male orgasm during penile-vaginal sex, with women more likely to orgasm while engaging in "a variety of sex acts".

 I am with you so far, Indiana, please continue.

The second gap, I have to believe, is related.  Men are also quite likely to think their most recent female partner orgasmed during sex, whereas women are less likely to say they experienced orgasm.  Hmmm.

I remember when I first began to realize I wasn't a total physiological failure for not experiencing vaginal orgasms.  I took the fact that my clitoris was not inside my vagina as proof that either God didn't exist, or he was a jerk.  Even a pig's clitoris is inside its vagina (check out